Update

I wrote here that we are talking again, my feelings are not as intense anymore, I don't feel what I used to feel. I knew that I had become detached during the no contact, I just noticed that he hasn't changed at all, that he doesn't understand what I'm saying to him and that I don't care that much anymore. I don't feel the need to explain to him anymore, to argue, I have accepted that he can't change and no one will change as long as they don't see anything wrong in what they do

If I can give you any advice, it's to stay in no contact! There's no point in going back, he won't change!! No matter how tempting the idea of ​​writing to him or answering him might be, don't do it, it's much better that way, you'll just be wasting your energy senselessly, don't ruin what you've built so far

I am more detached, but I still feel anxious when I receive messages from him, especially those off-topic, I know that soon we will no longer talk naturally, without pressure, and it is a little strange that he no longer brings me happiness when we talk, even when we are not arguing, he no longer makes me happy I told him these things, he got upset, but I was not interested

The attachment remained, but also the disappointment that he remained the same, that I no longer feel the same and that the fact that we talk or not, no longer makes a difference It is important to give yourself time, to process your emotions, not to rush, not to think about what could have been, it will not be as you think

I suffered for the image I created of him, not for him as a person. I care about him, but I am aware that he is not what I need, that he has done nothing for me beyond words, that he is not emotionally mature and that he will never be able to fight for me.

Last updated on:2025-12-17T05:56:03+05:30