Why can't he just reach out? day 34 of heartbreak
It obsesses me that he isn't reaching out to me. Maybe he will in a while, but it won't matter anymore by then. I know I can't go back; I can't do this to myself again. The saddest part is that he
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Why letting go is so hard: my breakup journey
It’s hard. I’ve been trying to shake this off for nearly a year. This time, for good. It is hard for me to convince myself that I don't need him to reach out. It is hard to accept that we won't
How to stop checking social media after a breakup
When you are in no contact mode, do you manage to stop checking social media? It’s very hard for me not to do it, I wish I could stop checking if she’s reached out or what she’s posted, I’m af
Day 38: why can't i move on?
day 38, but I unblocked him on day 31, I waited for him to write to me and he didn't. Today I blocked him again. The fact that he doesn't write to me is obsessing me, I feel like the first few days. I
Why can't i stick to no contact after a breakup?
I actually can't stay in no contact. After 2 weeks I come back, I feel bad, I start the cycle again. I come back saying I've detached myself, but I haven't. I've been doing this for almost a year. I b
dependent on someone
The most dangerous thing is to become dependent on someone. The addiction formed when, at first, someone gives you non-stop attention, behaves exemplary with you, understands you, you feel like the h
Stop doing that
If I could give advice, I would say that no matter how much you miss that person, don't contact them! Before I gave up completely, I would say, "I unblock him, but I don't answer him" or "I talk to h
Are there true friends?
I used to believe that true friends existed and I contradicted anyone who said they didn't. Until I started to see that they weren't happy when I achieved something, and even made me feel bad. Is the
I learned my lesson
One thing that disappointed me recently was the fact that a man can pretend to love you, to care, but when the time comes to prove it, he doesn't do anything. And you hope until the last moment, sayi
don't do that
I was thinking how important it is to have boundaries from the beginning. How important it is not to forgive a person for every mistake and how much you diminish in a person's eyes when they see tha
COVERT NARCISSIST
I want to talk about my experience with a covert narcissist. There are some people who literally drive you crazy, they have moments when they are strategically vulnerable, to make you feel sorry for
2025- it was a lesson
This year has almost passed. I don't regret anything, I suffered a lot, but I also learned from my mistakes. I learned not to give chances to those who once showed me that they didn't deserve it.
I am distgusted
I've been in no contact several times, each no contact brought me clarity. A few days ago I replied to his message, I saw that I was more detached, although I had certain sensations of tension in my b
Update
I wrote here that we are talking again, my feelings are not as intense anymore, I don't feel what I used to feel. I knew that I had become detached during the no contact, I just noticed that he hasn't
I answered him
I unblocked him thinking that if he texts me I will ignore him, but at the end of the day I answered him. I talk to him, but I am much more detached, more aware, it seems that I am slowly detaching m
Day 11
Day 11 and I feel more aware that nothing I thought was real It was just manipulation, the desire for validation, gaslighting, control I was honest and I really cared about him, I don't regret it
I unblocked him
I unblocked him, but I won't answer him if he texts me, I don't know, it's like I'm being pressured by the fact that I have him blocked and at the same time I want to see if I'm capable of ignoring hi
I'm fed up
It's very tiring not being able to move on even though you have every reason to I feel like I'm living the same day over and over And I know that I'm the only one suffering and he doesn't And I can'
Do you think it's a bad idea to unblock him?
Do you think it's a bad idea to unblock him? I won't reply if he texts me, but I somehow want him to see my pictures in the future.
How do you refrain from texting him during the no contact period?
I have moments when I feel like writing to him even though I know it's not worth it :(
Why is it so hard to get over a narcissistic partner?
Why is it so hard to get over a narcissistic partner? It literally made me think about him non-stop, think it was my fault even though it clearly wasn't, wish I could find him even though he was the o
a relationship with a narcissist
Have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist? If so, how did it develop over time? How did you feel during it and how did your days go together?