why i always think or dream about the day we get back together when there is abvious no that day

i’m going through the same thing , it’s all part of the process sweetie

Honey, you keep dreaming about it because you care so so much. Because you wanted this to work so badly! Because you are a good person and it was real for you! This person does not deserve even a second of your time, especially in dreams that are so private and special to the individual. I know this will be hard, I've been in the same position where dreaming about them was the only way to be close. And I would do anything to bring them up in a conversation or even think about them myself. But honey, that will hurt you even more. What I would suggest, is everytime the urge is there, immediately switch off. I know it will be hard at first and your mind will keep wanting to go back but think of your favourite thing instead. A sport, a song, a painting. Or what you did that day that was amazing or funny or an achievement. Think of your close friends, family, pets. Literally think of anything BUT that person. I know it won't be easy but the more you feed those thoughts, the more your mind and heart will be addicted to thinking about them. Stay strong honey 💗