hi guys wanting some support please. so we have been in no contact for 80 days and split for 4 months nearly he broke up with me abruptly with no closure and blocked me off everything so no way of contact. this is going to be the first Christmas alone in years and im really upset lonely and just want the day over with as quickly as possible. I desperately want to reach out but I know it would hr pointless even if I could any advice please guys as I carnt stop crying
Last updated on:2025-12-25T16:07:07+05:30
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having being blocked sucks because you feel like you have lost control. I feel you and this holiday season is very tough. but even if you reached out, what would you say and what do you expect his reply to be?
I will not reach out i think its passed now and also I have no way to even if I wanted to x
I feel you but he decided to block you and cut you out of his life. He already made his mind. Choose yourself. I’m in the exact same situation rn but for nothing I would break no contact since it’s his choice to not wanting me no more. I’m so in pain, really.
same here. but she's with her new boyfriend that she met in september. we ended our 4 yeas relationship in june. 4 years where we lived together for 3 of those.. she ended up saying she loved him back in october.
im desperatly holding on to the smallest hope that it's a rebound, and that she'll figure it out. but I pushed it too far this past month. pushed her away. and and im just afraid that ill never get to talk to her again. see her. hold her. get to have time with her and hear her voice
i don’t celebrate christmas but i do wonder what it’s like to celebrate it with someone. don’t worry, we’re on the same boat. we got this ( :
we feel you! I used to live with this guy half a year but he cheated on me and blocked me on his social media.
I dont think he thinks about me at all he just said on a random day he didnt love me anymore no reason why or how after 3 plus years together and blocked me off everything when I was trying to get some answers or a least a conversation there was nothing at all
Stop thinking if he is thinking about you. It's hard, I know. Cry if you need, but don't ever reach out, well, not now. My advice is, write on a notebook everything you want to tell him, let your emotions out. Your brain is trying to give a logical conclusion, but there's none.
It's hard, it's difficult. But you need to endure.
I know you want answers, lots of questions.
What went wrong? What happened? etc...
That's not going to help you.
He gave you a BIG ANSWER but you can't accept it: he doesn't want to be with you. Accept it and be free, the path is difficult, but, not impossible. Breathe and continue.
it will be my first christmas without him too. he blocked me so no Chance of contact. I hate christmas because also my parents are not togheter anymore and my Ex was the peace on these days.
we can talk if you want :)
Am going through the same thing with my girl recently... I know it's hard but just leave it, they don't think of us as much as we think of them