2025- it was a lesson

This year has almost passed. I don't regret anything, I suffered a lot, but I also learned from my mistakes.

I learned not to give chances to those who once showed me that they didn't deserve it.

I learned that people can say I love you even if they don't feel it, to throw words just to keep you there.

I learned that a man doesn't come back to you because he loves you, he comes back just to have control, validation, and your attention again.

I've learned that I don't have to go back to someone who hurt me just because I feel lonely or because I think they've changed.

I learned that a man who cares about you can't hurt you that many times, especially after you explain to him how much the way he treated you affected you.

I learned that no matter how hard it is to be alone, it's harder with the wrong person. Even if you have moments of happiness, the hard moments are more and there is no happiness there.

I no longer want to indulge in situations that hurt me and I hope to find someone who will treat me as I deserve, to no longer settle for crumbs and to no longer demean myself and give satisfaction to someone who doesn't change their behavior for my happiness.

And most importantly, I learned that words mean nothing without actions!! A man who only tells you words and doesn't fight to make you stay, doesn't give you time, only reconciles you with words and then makes the same mistake, will never change. And people like that deserve to lose you and realize what they've lost.

Last updated on:2025-12-31T22:57:03+05:30