We have been off and on again for years then 9 days ago we was talking not back together but talking I told him how I was feeling he hung up and would not respond so I went NC I have always chased in the past refused to do it again. well he sent me a bread crumb a few hours ago. I have not responded and don’t even know if I want to. not out of being mean but I truly don’t feel like I owe him anything he chose silence and I respected that access to me is not that easy anymore
Last updated on:2026-01-02T22:06:03+05:30
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when you think about replying, do you feel curiosity, anger, or just… nothing at all? trying to figure out what your gut actually wants.
you’re holding your boundaries really well it’s okay to not respond your peace comes first, and respecting yourself is everything
i kept chasing my ex for months, finally went NC, and when they reached out i didn’t even feel like replying. it’s such a weird mix of relief and hurt
be strong 💪 and have self respect.