Why can't i handle breakups?
this may be long but sorrry I am 49 in Feb this year when I was 29 I buried my first husband it was very unexpected we was together 8 years he was a great man Then I finally put myself back out ther
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How do i let go of our wedding plans?
we had plans of marriage already bought the ring How do I let all our plans go. How do I give up on the future we had planned. I am really struggling today
Why do i feel like i'm going crazy after my breakup?
my avoidant ex and I have broke up so many times over 3 years that I can’t even count. This time I don’t think I would go back if he reached out. I am exhausted from it all. but yesterday I felt s
He reached out
We have been off and on again for years then 9 days ago we was talking not back together but talking I told him how I was feeling he hung up and would not respond so I went NC I have always chased in
why can’t I stop
I woke up this morning and first thing I think about is him. I don’t want to do this anymore I just want the thoughts of him to stop. some days it feels like a obsession what is wrong with me
We did it!
with Christmas over I find myself relived If you thought about them all day but did not reach out I am proud! if they did reach out and you still remained in NC I am proud of you. even if you was fe
I am done
we broke up in October we have been talking back and forth really heavy the last few weeks but Sunday morning I voiced something that upset me while we was talking on the phone of course he hung up an
I am confused
We have been broke up since October we have talked off and on the whole time He text me on Monday stating he never stopped loving me. I a few days later tell him I love him and would like to take ba
What do you think
I broke it off with my ex back in October we had problems that were just not getting better. I miss him and love him still. he text me on Monday that he has never stoped loving me. and then said but t
Holidays
Any one having a really hard time with not being with your ex knowing tomorrow is Thanksgiving Christmas and News years will be right around the corner. I got so close to breaking no contact today. An
I am so over it
so I broke no contact we talked even went out to dinner we text for several days then all the sudden text slowed down he said he was just busy we dated for almost 3 years and busy was never a problem
should I do this?
The only way my ex and I talk about problems is over text why he can’t do it in person or at least over the phone I do not know. we even broke up over text so my question for yall. I really need to
maybe I am the problem
I am so lost without him sad and alone I miss him. I know I shouldn’t that he was not good at giving me what I needed. I called it off a month ago but we would still text and chatt but then we got i