we had plans of marriage already bought the ring
How do I let all our plans go. How do I give up on the future we had planned. I am really struggling today
Last updated on:2026-05-14T03:31:46+05:30
How do i let go of our wedding plans?
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I know it seems hard and I know youve probs heard this countless times but it does get better. Instead of think about what could have been with your partner create new plans with friends and family that give you something to look forward to in the future
honestly i stopped trying to “give up” the future all at once. i just got through one day at a time because some days the loss felt WAY too big to carry all at once.
I feel that when I think about it it’s just to much
You don’t have to forget him, but you must choose yourself and move forward. Do things that make you happy. Time will heal you, and one day you’ll see that ring and realize that you were able to move on.
a specific moment when you realized those plans might not happen anymore, or does it still feel unreal right now?
just feels unreal one minute we are grocery shopping then we both drive off talking on phone and he ends it. just like that crazy
ohhh staring at the ring my ex gave me and realizing i wasn’t just grieving him, i was grieving the whole life i had already pictured in my head