we broke up in October we have been talking back and forth really heavy the last few weeks but Sunday morning I voiced something that upset me while we was talking on the phone of course he hung up and I get silent treatment yet agin this happens all the time to many to even count in our almost 3 year relationship. I am so done hope he enjoys his silence cause he won’t here a word from me anymore I even blocked him I deserve so much better. he can enjoy his silence and I am going to enjoy my last and final silent treatment from him
Last updated on:2025-12-24T02:17:57+05:30
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when you blocked him, did it feel more relieving or more scary? like freedom mixed with grief, or mostly just exhaustion finally lifting?
relieving like I am not waiting anymore
silent treatment is a control thing, not a communication style. what helped me was realizing i wasn’t “too much” for wanting to talk. i was just asking the wrong person to show up.
i was with someone who used silence as punishment too. every time i spoke up, click. call over. days of nothing. it messes with your head BAD. i’m proud of you for blocking him honestly
omg he is like this I have ask him over the years to not do it but it never changed I always felt like it was a punishment