So my ex told me lately she hates me and tbh I'm confused and need advice. We split on amicable terms if not one sided. When we split she told me it wasn't cause of me and all that stuff and that she still loves me. The breakup itself did turn messy due to me not giving her the space she wanted. Ran into her 2 months after the breakup today and she says that she "hates me for what I put her through".
I'm so confused cause now I keep wondering if it was smth I did during the relationship to make her feel like this or is it cause I turned the breakup messy. My brain keeps bouncing around in my head thinking about it and wondering if it was smth during the relationship that I did that caused me to lose her and if it was why wouldn't she tell me that during the breakup and instead tell me its not cause of me. Any advice?
Last updated on:2026-01-02T19:38:23+05:30
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do you feel like you’ve had a chance to fully process the breakup for yourself, or is your brain still stuck trying to “fix” what happened between you two?
the latter
it’s normal to overthink stuff like this, trust me i did too. the only thing that helps is giving yourself space and focusing on your own healing instead of trying to decode her feelings.
my ex said things that totally confused me too. it hurt so much at first, but i realized her feelings changing after the breakup didn’t mean i was “bad” or the cause. it’s messy, not all your fault
🙂
u can ask her what hurt her
Blocked so cant