So I'm a bit out now from my relationship and while I've come to terms with us being done and have 0 plans to contact anywhere in the future. I still struggle with self blaming for the entire failing
Its been a bit since my breakup and no matter how I try to move on I can't get over how she spoke to me at the end. Like the amount of anger, hate and disrespect from her plays side by side all the am
It just stings knowing the person I care about and love hates me, wants nothing to do with me, doesn't want to hear from me ever again, doesn't care about me, that I'm dead to them. Just crushes my en
Anyone else been in this spot where there was a noticeable decline in intimacy before the breakup? Like before the breakup looking back I've noticed our sex life became non existent, kisses became for
So I've come to terms with the breakup 4 months after now and come to acceptance it's over and everything like I'm fine with it all and that we're done done. The thing I still ig struggle with is the
So it's been nearly 3 months now NC and I'm not spiraling and I've accepted that bridge is burnt and that me and my ex are done. The only thing I still struggle with is this feeling of self blame and
The thing I'm terrified most now is that I can slowly feel the pain ebbing away. The part of that which haunts me is once the pains gone it's finally over and I don't want it to be over :(.
She couldn't take it anymore, I pushed her too far. I messed up once too many times, she's done with me. She can't forgive me, she hates me. I love her more than anything, how could I fuck this up so
Title says it all cause I'm struggling and still in love with them.
The breakups all my fault, I didn't cheat or abuse her or anything but I kept making mistakes and I broke her trust. I felt her detaching. She loved me so much and I messed it up and now she hates me.
Will try to keep this short as possible to anyone taking the time to read this thank you and any advice is appreciated please any you can offer, so my ex left me for her mental health and to be alone
It's 3 months now since the breakup and coming up on 2 NC. I can't say I didn't see it coming fully. I knew she was distancing and checking out after a fight where I lied to her about something dumb.
I knew you were checking out and leaving. Can't say I didn't see it coming. ever since that fight where I told a stupid lie. a small stupid white lie. I knew it was the end. I tried to fix it and you
So me and my ex been split for 3 months now. I've accepted it's over and the bridge is burnt. The thing I guess I'm struggling with now is replaying my mistakes in the relationship and how I hurt her
She hates me, wants nothing to do with me, despises me, is nasty to me, wants me out if her life for good but I still love her. I know I can't force her to love me, I can't make her wanna be with me b
During the breakup you said it had nothing to do with me, that it wasn't about me not being enough or doing something wrong and that I was a "Perfect Loving Caring BF" and now you "Hate you for what y
Will keep it relatively short but sorta long so please read this I would appreciate it, dating for a year, I made mistakes whcih I think led to her leaving she says left for her mental health, after t
The worst part is that I can't say I truly didn't see it coming. I felt it, I noticed when you pulled away after that fight where I broke your trust over something so dumb. I noticed you being less ha
This was my first ever relationship, my first person who was my everything, she was perfect too, in every single way, funny, beautiful, smart, amazing personality and she loved me with all her heart,
Any advice to stop ruminating, my head recently for some reason feels like a constant tornado of thoughts of "what if's" and thinking over every single mistake in the relationship I made trying to fi
So my ex told me lately she hates me and tbh I'm confused and need advice. We split on amicable terms if not one sided. When we split she told me it wasn't cause of me and all that stuff and that she
So after we broke up I chased my ex against her wishes and disrespected her boundaries and killed all good will between us. Any advice for self forgiveness and coming to terms with them gating you?
Me and my ex split on good terms with her saying the breakup wasn't cause of me not being enough or doing something wrong. However despite this I keep going over in my head every single mistake I made
My ex left me for mental health reasons and feeling depressed and ig the usual things people say when they leave for this reason. During the breakup she insisted aggressively that she felt the same ab
So my ex left me due to depression, past trauma and ideation and needing to be alone to heal, not drag me down, not feel blame or shame of not giving me her all, not feel guilty of not being enough of
It's finally been essentially a month again since we spoke, I remember when you said you didn't wanna go a day without talking with me, now you couldn't care less to go a month. Finally learnt to stop
So it's been a month and I ran into her after she blocked me on everything and when I went to talk to her she told me she hates me, is better off without me not giving her space after the breakup, tha
So my first ever breakup when me and my ex broke up I struggled with separation anxiety and every 4-5 days when she'd block me somewhere new or delete a chat would reach out since we left on good term