I realised he is following yet another girl. Immediately I start comparing myself. She seems so smart, beautiful pictures, he liked all of them. I am crushed and couldnt stop. Why do I hurt myself like this. I want to die.
Last updated on:2026-01-07T02:22:02+05:30
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u see him liking her photos, what do you feel first before the comparisons kick in. is it rejection, abandonment, or that old “why wasn’t i chosen” pain
i hear how crushed you are. when i get stuck in that spiral, the only thing that helps me even a little is closing the app and putting my phone physically away.
watching him follow someone new and suddenly i’m tearing myself apart, comparing every inch of me to a stranger on my screen. i did the same thing over and over even though it DESTROYED me. it wasn’t curiosity, it was self-punishment, and i didn’t realize that for a long time
They will never find anyone like us ever gain. Thats for sure. But we need to stop behaving like thats a good thing. We are amazing, unique, maybe crazy, but that can be good too. I dont mind being the crazy ex, he will miss me someday and then its too late .
this happend to me today..
Truth be said heart break will put you in a lot of pain, but life goes on you have to move on.
it's easy to compare yourself from social media pictures. Social media isn't real life. He'll also treat her the same way he did to you and he'll end up single again. Try to find your worth from yourself and the people that love you.