we have both decided to call it quits after 2.5 years of dating, I still care for him as a person. I try to remind myself everyday I walk through the door this is not my home and I will be out in a month. I don’t want to leave the house but I also don’t want to stay. I’m ready for my freeedom, but afraid of what my new routine will be.
we still talk everyday and are close, but we could not make it work dude to our reasons.
Anything will help… saying you understand, sharing a quote, sharing your current experience.
Last updated on:2026-01-07T15:08:03+05:30
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when you imagine that new routine you’re scared of, what part of it feels heaviest?
i ended thing and still lived together for a bit, doing that whole “this isn’t my home anymore” mantra every time i walked in. caring about them while actively leaving them is its own kind of heartbreak. that in-between space messed with my head more than the breakup itself
this must be extremely difficult, I cant imagine how much it must hurt. your strength is amazing. when you move out you can still communicate if you remain friends and you'll find it easier to move on. sending you hugs.
it's will get better