I haven’t checked this app for a few days. I went on vacation and that helped me a lot. I feel like I’m finally letting him go. I sent a “merry Christmas” message on two apps where we talk. but he didn’t reply. this made me feel so sad and I could clearly see he doesn’t care about me and that I was in a fantasy thinking we would come back.
I decided to not send any message to him. last Monday I saw he replied “same to you”… 😑😑
I had to reset my countdown. I am focusing on my social life, on my self care, and self love. I can’t live waiting for him to change. I am finally moving on. and it feels good. 💫
Last updated on:2026-01-13T13:27:05+05:30
Comments (9)
Well done to you, don't drop the ball
Iam proud that you did so and it was kind of you to send merry Christmas “ because you are a good person “ not to seek his attention to reply , even tho don’t approach again for your own self .
when you say it feels good moving on, is it more relief or more sadness right now? or both at the same time
I am finally feeling free. I used to feel very attached to him. I still get nostalgic but I don’t cry, I think this is how it feels to move on.
the part where you chose yourself hit me. focusing on friends and self care was the only thing that slowly broke the fantasy for me. it didn’t erase the pain, but it gave me air to breathe again
i’ve been there with the late reply that resets everything. i remember thinking i was strong, then BOOM one word dragged me back. you’re not weak for that
the good thing was that late reply didn’t make me feel out of control like before. I didn’t ask anything, I responded with the same coldness.
i’m proud of u for finally letting it go!!
I’m proud of myself too. I’m feeling more confident. I still love him. but I’m going to bury that love inside my heart and move on.