okeyyyy, I did it i reached 7 day's of not contacting him and honestly I feel very happy and im starting to feel like myself again and I don't have the urge to think 24/7 about him so yeah I am happy that I already got this far.
also I need little bit of help, so yesterday I went babysitten but I asked a guy I know if he could bring me en get me back home and he did and it was very nice and when we he got me back home we kissed but first he asked if it was Okey so it was nothing bad. but I wanna know if it was to fast to get like get to know another guy or not because it didn't feel bad
Last updated on:2026-01-13T01:08:30+05:30
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did the kiss feel like curiosity and connection, or did it feel like trying to replace what you lost. no judgment at all, just wondering
the kiss felt like curiosity but there was also a connection
hitting a week of no contact and feeling like myself again too. i also kissed someone early on and panicked after. it didn’t feel wrong, just… new. that matters
that's the same feeling I was experiencing
I'd like to talk to you about your sit, mainly curious how you were able to start feeling better so quickly. Still decimated here
I texted him again today, I keep seeing videos that remind me of him and I know it was for the better but I love him so much, I don't know when I'll move on.
you know it's okey if you texted him again because you were seeing videos that reminded you of him and that was a prikkel and everyone moves on but just at a different rhythm
Congrats
Congrats glad you made it to the 7 day mark
Ohh girl, im soo happy for youu. Life goes on ofc its alrighttt
I'm on day 8 and I still feel sad. I hope one day I'll stop ruminating. you give me courage. thank you
10 for me! trust me it gets better u might have a slight bit on 10th but so far so good!
Everyone moves on on their own time. If you feel ready to be intimate with someone else after 7 days then i‘d say you do you. Also might help as a little distraction after your break up.
I wanna add that 7 days of no contact is genuinely a goal for me rn. I‘m on day 1 and 10 hours and i constantly feel the urge to text him or check his socials hahaha. youre doing well
yess the 3 days is hardest but I have issue of like getting bck tg w them but honestly after 3d it gets better
js do not. msg them it restarts ur feelings
and makes u feel worse