I think I'm having a panic attack I logged in my Instagram after months of not using it and I saw a message from a woman asking if I'm with my bf because there's been a other woman sleeping there for months. I started chatting to her and asked questions just to find out it was the time we started having problems and on days I couldn't get a hold of him. he blamed the break up on my trust issues so here I find out I was right ontop of that we spent a night together just to find out he slept with someone else that same week I'm completely broken
Last updated on:2026-01-19T06:46:08+05:30
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I hope you're feeling better today.
I feel like I'm in a movie I just can't accept my reality and everyday I find out more
@ladyT you probably shouldn't find out anything else. It's only going to make you feel worse. Focus on your healing instead. Sounds like he's not worth your tears.
he just got meaner even tho i tried fixing things crying endless nights even calling him constantly he just turned into something cold.
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how did you get over it or move on ?
He blocked me randomly and I don't know what I did. He was so sweet. I miss him so much
did he ever admit to any of this when you were together, or did he just keep flipping it back on you and your “trust issues”?
he never admitted to anything it was always me overthinking everything
always trust your intuition girls🙏🙏
the guy wanted to make you feel responsible for his actions. forget about him like he never existed
he denies everything
I haven't slept all night and I randomly start crying nothing makes sense
I know that feeling . im feeling worthless right now , but always remember times heal . take it a day at a time .
you just uncovered a massive truth bomb. it makes sense you feel shattered.
nothing makes sense and i can't help think how unfair this is his living happily while my world just exploded again its like I took 100 steps back
you deserve better. keep going.
today has been hard my tears are just not stopping
he's a manipulating dog, u deserve better, put him in ur rear view
I really hope I can I hate him for doing this to me
went through almost the same thing. i was told my “trust issues” ruined us, only to later find out there was someone else the whole time. that whiplash of realizing you weren’t crazy at all… it HURTS in a very specific way. i’m so sorry you’re carrying this.
My mind feels like it's going to explode I can't focus
I know the betrayal hurts. I am so sorry that you had to go through this again. Please take care of yourself. He is at fault and terrible. it was never you. His terrible character caused the downfall but don’t let this encounter ruin your chances for trust and hope in the future. Don’t let him win and ruin your ability to have a healthy wonderful encounter with someone else or even just your perspective of life. There are so many more amazing people out there for you and more importantly you’ve learned to trust your intuition
this hurts more then I can imagine 💔 I had a chat with the lady that messaged me she gave me dates and I went through all our messages 💔 I'm completely broken
@ladyT you should stop doing this. It's not helpful to your healing. You already know he's a dog. You don't need any other details.
I am so so sorry girlie. its not easy
I haven't stopped crying today