My breakup ended so suddenly and ever since I’ve felt miserable every single day. Some days I seem fine on the surface but deep down I’m not. My ex acts as if I never mattered while I’m left feeling torn apart.
It’s like I was easily replaced like I’m just a nobody again. And I hate myself for ever daring to open up for believing even for a moment that I deserved to be seen or loved.
Last updated on:2026-01-15T22:39:03+05:30
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when you say you hate yourself for opening up, do you feel ashamed for needing love, or angry that you trusted someone who couldn’t hold it
feeling erased too, like he flipped a switch and i was nothing overnight. being replaced that fast messes with your sense of worth so deeply. i questioned EVERYTHING about myself
I got hit with the same burning question when my ex left me for my friend. It definitely hurts and impedes you for as long as you let it, i find you just have to, you have to open yourself to be vulnerable again because the other option is not something i think anyone wants, to be bitter, angry and alone is not a life anyone should sentence themselves to.
they are feeling it too, it's just that they are good in hiding thiers ...just hang on you will be fine with time
Listen to me. You are a beautiful soul and you absolutely deserves to be loved. I want you to put it in your mind that you are now in a relationship with yourself. Be kind to yourself and take yourself out on dates.
oh my gosh, you absolutely deserve to be and feel loved ❤️. don't put yourself down because of their actions. life is sent to test us good or bad, but we also learn and grow from lifes situations. time is a healer, trust the process. we're here for you x