She called me last night askin me to start takin care of myself. She wants me to do something that makes myself happy than for anyone else, even for her. She said when I only take care of her and not myself, she feels not enough for me and said "if you dont love yourself, how can u love me?" She even suggested to find someone who can be there for me all the time coz she doesnt want ldr anymore. and i said i dont want anyone else. im ready to work on myself and wait no matter how long it takes. Eventually she said she will be there for me. Once im done with my studies and other goals abroad, and once I am back to my hometown, she said she would be there. But it scares me. Idk what the future holds. She asked me to trust her. But it still scares me. I dont want to lose her to anyone else. Im ready to go to any distance to keep her in my life..
Last updated on:2026-01-22T03:29:02+05:30
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you imagine the future, are you holding onto her because she feels like home, or because losing her feels too painful to face right now
the way you are sounding you have already lose her
this sounds like so much love mixed with fear.
i’ve been the one who poured EVERYTHING into him and forgot myself, and he pulled back because of it. hearing “love yourself first” felt like rejection even when it wasn’t meant that way