okey if need some advice because I have a fake account that he follows but he doesn't know that it's me. and today he send me a message trough that account and I dont know what I have to do do i have to reset my journey or not
Last updated on:2026-01-28T09:27:27+05:30
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girl sorry but if you genuinely want to move on you should delete the account. I get it. I’m the same, but it only reinforces the attachment and keeps you in a place where u remain hopeful cause u still have access. rip off the bandaid. easier said than done, of course. he probably even knows it’s you. lol
I suggest removing him as a follower or blocking him on that account in order to maintain no contact.
You dont have to reset your journey if you didnt respond. Its best to do what feels right for your healing process on the long term ✨️
why the world still keep us meeting when i already decide of letting him go after all the love that i had for him
I m so much depressed
don't reply then you don't have to reset . also log out of that I'd don't msg him or stalk him .
what part of this scares you more. losing progress on your healing journey, or letting go of that tiny secret connection that still feels comforting
reply then u reset
this is tricky and it hurts.
Exactly same happened to me. I find it resets our healing. So, it's best to just stay away completely
i had a fake account too, he followed it, and when he messaged i felt my stomach DROP. it messed with my head so bad. like i was healing and suddenly i was right back in the trauma bond
honestly, if you don’t reply then you don’t have to reset it but if you did respond then yes you should reset it