Honestly though it feels good that she has to put me down to feel better about herself. Her mom was a big help she talked with me while I was on a trip that I had planned for my ex. I hope her mom and father are ok.
Last updated on:2026-01-27T21:23:40+05:30
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how are you holding up emotionally after that trip? does it feel like a win that you did it for yourself, even if they tried to bring you down?
that trip was back in November and honestly not really the whole time I was there I could only think of my ex. It was a lot of fun and I had family and friends around to help but it was also a lot of mental exhaustion.
sounds like you have a tiny shield in her mom’s kindness. leaning on those small allies and focusing on your own plans really helps me when i feel their negativity creeping in
Her mom was really kind to me after everything my ex did and I wish her nothing but the best.
ex trying to drag me down to feel better about themselves. it’s exhausting but somehow their need to demean says more about them than you
yeah I just wish this wasn't the type of person I knew she was. I chose to ignore it and tbf I also did some petty and mean things as revenge for cheating on me.
Lord, this is so immature. If she hates you then let her, just dont let it bring you down. Be thankful towards her parents, its sad she came out to be so immature but one day she will learn. If you havent moved on, I kinda reccomend it. You have been nc for 47 days and this is how shes acting? Truly a lost cause.
yeah I'm trying to. This just kinda made it click for me that she hasn't changed and is still the same person that hurt me. Thanks for talking.