dependent on someone

The most dangerous thing is to become dependent on someone.

The addiction formed when, at first, someone gives you non-stop attention, behaves exemplary with you, understands you, you feel like the happiest person, and then, gradually, they start to mentally abuse you without you realizing it.

And when you start to realize every single thing he does to you, you're shocked, you cry and then after the shock wears off, you want him back, you miss him again and the brain wants to get what it got in the beginning, the brain wants that person to do you good, that person who abuses you.

And you end up saying "he made me feel terrible, I'll never forgive him again, then after a while you want him back so badly".

Then after a while you say "how come I still want him so badly, he just humiliated me so much", but you still can't let him go.

Then you end up explaining to him, writing novels, hoping he'll understand that you're hurt by the way he treats you, and he doesn't change anything, he doesn't care, and you struggle with your condition alone.

And the worst thing is that that person knows you're addicted to them and takes advantage of that, instead of wanting you to be well.

But at some point, he does so many things to you that make you withdraw, even if you still want him to a small extent, but I know that nothing will change and that the time has come to put yourself first and never go back.

Last updated on:2026-02-03T01:55:41+05:30