Its been 11 days of no contact, and 9 more days until my birthday. Yes, my birthday is on Feb.14 Valentines Day and I just already feel that I am going to be so sad on my birthday. I always distract myself to not think about him, but today, I can't help it. I miss him. I want to message him, ask how he is doing, and tell him about my day. I just miss talking to him. I guess I just really got used to it, that I always talk to him and update him with everything. I miss him so much. And I know I should not break no contact. ❤️🩹
Last updated on:2026-02-06T17:41:03+05:30
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was he usually the first person you ran to with emotions or just day-to-day stuff too? sometimes that part hurts more than the romance itself
i hit day 12 of no contact and my birthday was coming up too, and it felt like my chest was screaming. losing the person you updated about EVERYTHING is a different kind of grief
Im on the same boat freind my birthday is a day before yours. I feel the need to constantly text and reach out. I know its so hard to stop yourself from doing that because you built a habit around this person. You're doing good. Keep moving forward and staying strong 💪 ✨️ you got this.
Happy early Birthday 🎂
Not reaching out is so hard, because of course you want to know how he is, and talk to him about your day. That's what I miss too. But you're doing really well.
oh that's so sad, in a way I hope he messages you happy birthday. but the best gift he could give you is to let you move on