so i wanted to get back with him after some months I need time to understand what I want . but today i played one old recording of us talking . and I noticed the way he talks to me I always to him in a very insecure way and he always says some negetive things to me and also in a very bad ways. i feel really hurt after hearing those recordings . what should I do . I feel like it isn't the right thing to do to go back to him now. how should I judge the situation. in recent times he has been good to me but sometimes I gets really toxic should I give him a chance?
Last updated on:2026-02-09T17:19:03+05:30
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when you imagine going back, do you picture feeling calm and safe with him, or just less lonely right now? that question changed everything for me
i did the SAME thing, listened to old voice notes and realized how small and shaky i sounded around him. that insecurity didn’t come from nowhere. it was learned
it's better to move on, you don't deserve someone who talks bad to u
It would be a little hypocritical of me to tell you to be rude and not go back with him, because I know well how you feel. So if a zero contact is not good for you, the best thing (in my opinion) is a "shock" contact, you can be with him, and if he continues to disrespect you or does not treat you as you deserve, stay there with him until he hurts you enough to be able to let go.