oh well

I thought we were okay. we had gone no contact for a month when I texted him and that was my fault honestly. He answered and I never texted back, a couple days later her tells me he’s sorry. For the first couple of days maybe even a week we were okay constantly talking and now it seems like it’s just back to the way it was. No response, not text for days, promises of friendship and now I’m back to the same cycle. I should have never done that. No effort once again and I’m once again having to get frustrated and angry just to get a response. Nothing makes me more sad than being ignored. It hurts, it’s easier to go no contact when he’s the last one that answers. I tried to follow him on social media to build a connection and he ignored me. I’m genuinely so embarrassed and I just apologize for making him uncomfortable and just blocked him again on social media. I’m left with nothing once again and this time it’s my fault for thinking he had changed. I’m honestly heartbroken but it’s okay.

Last updated on:2026-02-09T19:49:03+05:30

Comments (5)

alonedude
alonedude 3 wks ago

when he goes quiet like that, what do you notice happen inside you first. sadness, anger, anxiety?

cringnijja
cringnijja 3 wks ago

broke no contact, thought maybe THIS time was different. same silence. same crumbs. the embarrassment after trying to reconnect? god, i felt that in my bones

ithurts
ithurts 3 wks ago

He doesn't deserve you girl

sadphoenix
sadphoenix 3 wks ago

you deserve better

FrostBuzz988
FrostBuzz988 3 wks ago

I’m here if you ever need to talk about it