i went to visit my boyfriend and while we were in the room talking, someone knocked on the window and my boyfriend went to check who it was.
immediately he checked, he immediately git restless and brought down the window blind.
he then placed his index finger across his lips signifying for me to keep quiet.
He then asked me to take my things and go to the other room where his brother was.
i was confused and my boyfriend was restless.
After some time,his brother said we should go out through the back door.
when we were leaving, I heard a lady shouting hurtfully.
From what I could figure out,my boyfriend was holding her in order to prevent her from seeing me cause' I heard her saying "You think I don't know she's leaving through the back door?.
i then texted my boyfriend confronting him that he brought another lady into the house and had to sneak me out .
He saw the message and ignored replying me with" Hi babe" as if nothing happened
what should I do?
who was the lady to him?
am I the main babe or sidechick?
should I end the relationship?
Last updated on:2026-02-11T23:01:03+05:30
Comments (4)
has he ever made you feel hidden before? like not fully claimed? because the sneaking and the silence feels bigger than just one random knock on a window
i can’t tell you what to do, but when i was confused like this, that confusion WAS my answer.
i’ve been in that exact “hide in the other room” situation and it’s humiliating. the finger on the lips, the sneaking out the back door… i felt SO small. later i found out i wasn’t the only one. that kind of chaos is not love
you know already