I'm feeling pretty good most days now. I've been trying to listen to more positive music and get out of my house more often. I've got some time off of work coming up soon that I plan to use testing new recipes. I also plan on getting back into creative hobbies that I haven't explored in years.
It gets better. I am positive I will have a bad day again and I still think of her a lot, like most of my days, but I know I'm better off without her.
I hope you guys are ok.
Last updated on:2026-02-12T01:50:05+05:30
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when you say you’re better off without her, what’s the main reason you know that deep down?
i try to lean into the good days without questioning them.
me n my ex definitely was toxic but I also dropped everything for him and stopped doing the things I love just to support what he loves n I was still never enough but lately I been going out doing the things I love and lord I feel so free n happy but at the same time he’s in the back of my head constantly there’s never a day where I don’t think about him I’m constantly thinking about him
i still thinking about her daily but not drowning anymore. cooking, music, random little hobbies saved me too. it wasn’t perfect, but it felt like breathing again
congratulations on 64 days of no contact. I'm so proud of you!. that's amazing that you're started to listen to more positive music and that you're getting out of the house more. I'm still struggling to leave the house and get off the couch. thank you for inspiring me. I had to reset my no contact today. I had to make the hard decision to change my phone number and email. I had them blocked but I got weak and unblocked them and they called and I picked up. I can't keep talking to them and going in circles. I have to start pushing myself to leave the house and move on. thank you for your inspiring story.