This post is for everyone who needs it. We're all here because in someway were attached to our Ex's still. You broke up but they still rattle around your brain.
So what now? You're in no contact, you may be blocked everywhere like me.
So you level up. Not to be noticed or for your ex. But for yourself (maybe a little pinch of sweet revenge).
You level up like this. Think back to all the things you planned with your ex but never got around to. Go on that holiday without them, visit that place. Said a piece of clothing or a certain colour would suit you? Buy it! Maybe you asked their opinion on an item of clothing and they didn't like it. Buy it! Maybe you gained a little weight. It's normal to be in a relationship, Takeaways and dining out. Hit the gym, jog, walk excercise.
Ex didn't expect tattoos? Get one! Want to go to a concert with you? Go anyway with a friend.
If they ever notice? It will hit them like a freight train. They will realise you're doing great without them.
As for me? My ex always said I'd suit my ear pierced. So last week I did. Always wanted to go to Italy with me. I've booked a trip for June. Starting learning the guitar and hitting the gym.
LEVEL UP!
They won't miss you whilst you're lying in bed surrounded by pizza boxes and ice cream tubs, crying to the Notebook.
We're all in this together!
Last updated on:2026-02-12T04:42:17+05:30
Comments (7)
when you say “they won’t miss you while you’re crying in bed,” i felt that. but be honest… are you still having those nights too?
No I'm not anymore. Confused and a little F'd up? Yes of course I am or I wouldnt be here.
level up...
nice one
i love the level up energy. just… for me, i had to be careful that i wasn’t secretly doing it for the “freight train moment.” because when they didn’t react, it stung.
Yes always do it for you. They always notice even if they pretend they dont 😉
Yay, I really like this mood level up activated on my end.
i was blocked everywhere too. no contact felt like being erased. and i remember just staring at the ceiling thinking… now what?
i started doing the stuff we used to “plan” and never did. took myself to the beach we talked about. cut my hair the way he said wouldn’t suit me. and yeah… part of me wanted him to see it. but mostly? i needed to see that i was still ME without him. that part saved m