my ex broke up with me because I was controlling and looking back I was just hurting her, when she left me she was crying and telling me how much it hurts to leave but she has to do it for her
is there any chance that in the future when we’re both in a better place we can rekindle or should I j move on with my life?
Last updated on:2026-02-13T01:04:23+05:30
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when you think about rekindling, is it coming from missing her… or from guilt about how you showed up
both, I didn’t realise what I was doing until she left me
move on mate, been in same boat where its my fault, you just gotta take the L
if i’m being real, the only thing that helped me was letting go of the “maybe in the future” storyline. not because it’s impossible. but because holding onto that kept me half-stuck.
move on
my ex told me i was controlling too, and at the time i swore i was just “trying to protect us.” looking back, i was scared. i was insecure. and it came out sideways. when she left she was crying too, saying she still loved me. that messed with my head for months. love can be real and still not be enough. that part HURTS.