I’m the one who messed up and ruined everything through being controlling and angry, it’s been just over a month since the breakup and I’m starting to accept that what I’ve done is done and it’s happened.
I just wanna know if in the future like 5-6 months if it would be a good idea to try to calmly reach out to her after giving her some space to talk about everything that happened and just sincerely apologise and show her that I understand how I made her feel.
Last updated on:2026-02-14T04:06:41+05:30
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Depends tbh I would just apologise now if youre not blocked and leave it at that. Mate at 5-6 months most people would've found peace and you'd probably be disturbing hers.
if it disturbs her peace she won’t respond
@Swazt3k I mean you do you man, but yeh if you're blocked that's crossing a boundary and won't be well received. You're better off just letting her reach out to you or show your apology by respecting her boundary.
if she never replied or didn’t want to talk, would you still feel at peace knowing you’ve grown and learned from it?
idk time will tell
i’ve been the one who messed it up too. my anger, my need to control everything… it pushed someone i loved away. sitting with that guilt was brutal. the hardest part was accepting i couldn’t undo it
you can’t undo it but you can become a better person and respectfully reach out in the future.