Still struggling 3 months later with the fact the person I love hates me

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It just stings knowing the person I care about and love hates me, wants nothing to do with me, doesn't want to hear from me ever again, doesn't care about me, that I'm dead to them. Just crushes my entire world.

Last updated on:2026-02-16T04:59:17+05:30

Comments (7)

Breathless
Breathless 2 wks ago

do you actually know they hate you, or is it how their distance feels right now? sometimes my brain filled in the worst possible story when all i had was silence.

NeonJet197
NeonJet197 2 wks ago

they said it

FaintSoul
FaintSoul 2 wks ago

the hardest part was accepting that their silence didn’t define my worth

magnum
magnum 2 wks ago

i was there at 3 months too, still waking up with that heavy feeling like “how can someone who said they loved me now act like i’m nothing?” it messed with my head so bad. feeling hated by someone you love is a different kind of pain

ForMyself26
ForMyself26 2 wks ago

Take heart, it hurts so much to realize this, but it's the reality and you have to accept it. But tell yourself that if he doesn't want you, someone else will, often even more.

HappyVibe258
HappyVibe258 3 wks ago

I’m starting new with no contact she wanted it a while ago but I keep pushing but she said she’ll come back as long as I respect it

WhizCraft477
WhizCraft477 3 wks ago

That's life. Not everyone will stay, some were just lessons. Dont worry you got this