Not sure if you guys seen the previous post about him finally viewing my story. Basically he has been ignoring all my insta stories for 3 weeks but now that I'm on holidays and so contact 5 days he has seen my story. He posted one himself (very rare for him to do) and I did not see it even though I really wanted to. He just posted another one and I'm wondering if he is seeing if I'll view this one like maybe he thinks I was just busy last night and thats why and testing the water now. What do you think?
Last updated on:2026-02-20T20:30:05+05:30
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if he is testing the water, what would you actually want to happen next? and does viewing his story bring you peace, or just more overthinking
Just ignore. He is giving you mixed signals. Save yourself
when i caught myself analyzing every view and post, that’s when i knew i was still hooked. for me, muting helped because otherwise i’d spiral over tiny things that probably meant nothing… or meant something i couldn’t control anyway.
ugh the story-view chess game 😩 i’ve BEEN there. checking who watched, pretending i didn’t care, wondering if he posted just to see if i’d look. it becomes this silent back and forth where no one says anything but everything feels loaded. it’s exhausting.