It's day 26 and i'm struggling to move on

They say it takes 21 days to forget a person. But its Day 26 now and to be honest, I'm kind of missing him. ANYWAAAAAY, We can do this guys! always remember you are loved and you deserve better!! Do not settle for less. Do not settle for trash!!!

Last updated on:2026-02-23T17:13:03+05:30

Comments (7)

LostmySoul
LostmySoul 1 wk ago

when you say you miss him, is it actually him… or the version of him you hoped he’d be? i had to ask myself that and whew.

imaginme
imaginme 1 wk ago

missing him doesn’t mean you should go back. it just means you’re human.

LostEchoes
LostEchoes 1 wk ago

hitting day 30 and thinking… why am i STILL missing him?? i was the one hyping myself up too, posting “i deserve better” while secretly checking my phone. healing isn’t linear, no matter what the 21-day myth says. i missed him and still knew i deserved better. both can exist

JoyLover931
JoyLover931 1 wk ago

Today, I'm at Day 29. I remember seing a post here before saying that she is at Day 32, and I remember being so amazed and proud of her that I want to be like her too and reach Day 32 because somehow I feel like, I would feel much better. Now, I'm so close to Day 32 and its not better.

WildSun457
WildSun457 1 wk ago

you will never forget about them. in 21 days you can get rid of some habits you had. the feelings will take longer to not have them. don’t push yourself. take one day at a time.

Sojourner
Sojourner 1 wk ago

Does indeed suck. She blocked me just on base WhatsApp but left all else open. For my own sanity. I unfollowed her. If ever she wants to talk to me. She must force herself to take the only route left or leave it be.

SweetLight770

Needed to hear this, thank you! <33