not sure what to do tbh broke no contact we had an argument last night and we fixed it earlier today I feel she’s not happy with me breaking no contact but I felt like it needed to be fixed so there was no tension so no I’m starting fresh with no contact, disappointed in myself tbh but she said she’s come back as long as I stick to no contact, we see eachother every Wednesday to go gym so it helps a bit to be quiet until then but I trust she’ll come back as long as I do my part
Last updated on:2026-02-23T19:37:28+05:30
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if she only comes back “as long as you stick to no contact,” does that feel secure to you?
yes I trust it it’s not just sticking to no contact it’s showing I can change
i get why you reached out. silence can feel unbearable.
yes it reallt can
ugh. i’ve been here. i broke no contact “just to clear the tension” too. told myself it was mature, that it needed to be fixed. and then i felt stupid after that disappointed-in-yourself feeling hits hard. but honestly, it just showed me i still cared. you’re human. that’s not a failure.
I understand that but I believe the best I can do is give the space now
just let it go
I’m not letting it go bro there’s no way u obviously don’t understand the full situation that’s just yesterday and today been 3weeks
cant let something like this go
@HappyMoodxxo that’s exactly what I’m saying i wanna be patient for her it’s sweet and it’s a needed break after 3 years I just feel like I keep messing up the no contact rule