so it has been 3 days since she choose another guy over me it's still hurts cause i did everything to get her i swear i was sacrificing my sleep to stay with her the nights i was with her supported her write her essayes to her exam i checked her 3 years of reposting in tik toks just to know her personality what she likes and don't i was honest with her but in the end she still chooses another guy who she blocked him and she was telling me how she was not feeling well with him and always making her stress but in the end she prefers him over me and here i am heartbroken and don't know what im going to do and im 18 years old please help me
Last updated on:2026-03-02T12:12:02+05:30
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This is hard to imagine right now when the world you only know...your library of reference only has one book on the shelves and that is of hers. First love and first heartbreak will now be also on your shelves but as you find your path, people will come and go. Some will stay for a little while and if your lucky and don't shut off your heart, a good one will come along and you won't read that other book anymore.
There is no way to ease the pain your feeling other then try and find ways to keep your mind busy and let time pass. The pain fades as time goes by and remembrance won't feel like a knife like it does now.
Ypu are young, free and single. There is a whole wide world waiting to meet you. Take some time to be kind to yourself and then go out and meet it. You won't be alone for long. Young people never are. trust me.
Couldn't have said it any better myself!
do you feel like you were loving her, or trying to prove yourself to her? because i used to overgive hoping they’d finally pick me. and that part of me was just scared of not being chosen
no no i loved her and i was trying to prove my love for her but she didn't choose me
take it easy on yourself you will probably find someone better and focus more on your studies stop thinking about her little brother you will be fine
i will thanks for your words i appreciate everyone who commented in this post
when someone chooses the person who stresses them over the one who supports them, i try not to take it as a reflection of my worth. sometimes people go back to what feels familiar, even if it’s unhealthy.
yeah like i did what i want to do is being a good person and i know my worth i deserve someone better and i ll get it dw about i talked about this situation with my friends they all said i deserve better and tbh im feeling so much better when i reached out to someone im really glad i download this app
Damn. Giving it your all and still being cast aside by the girl you love and care for hurts so much. More than anything. Your mind will have to detox from this for a long time. The more you gave her of yourself, the more your brain learned that she was the most important thing in the world. Go No Contact for many months so your brain can rewire itself.
i will trust me i will it won't be easy but ill try
@WavyLove226 I'm on day 250 of no contact. You can do this. When you feel like reaching out to her, get on this app instead and talk to others. This app really helped me!
@Unhealed 250 days, wow! What gives you the strength to just keep it up?
she lie she not over her ex .sorry she just use u to get over him u are her rebound. if girl say hate ex 100 time never trust she not over him. stay strong buddy go gym journal talk friend go out go therapy keep busy school work hobby move on hope u heal soon u deserve love u will find girl who appreciates you u good guy
thank you buddy for your words im sure ill move on in the end it's just lessons we must always build on and i know she will come back but she will find a dead end cause im done the pain she gave me that night im not forgetting it and i will biuld on it
i’ve BEEN that person who did everything. stayed up all night, helped with school stuff, studied her socials like it was research and she still chose someone who treated her worse. it made me feel invisible. like how was my love not enough? i promise you, that pain is real and it’s brutal.
but how did you move on i wanna now ?
@WavyLove226 you can't jus move on feel every pain that comes with this break up you will probably find someone who has the same intentions with you
take it easy on yourself