126 Days No Contact: Moving On After an Avoidant Ex

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I wan say I'm do well I not think cry miss her anymore even see her in my dream I don't feel anything sometime I think her then I remember her ghost but act sns lack communication time together no bare minimum can't call video call even we ldr repost I'm bad she good soul that why not work even ik begging no break it made me realize ick after list all her red flag I don't need reach out anymore since she dry short even I care miss her she idgf it's been so long she wan peace she can take forever since she don't care reach afraid lost me since she don't love me

Last updated on:2026-02-27T15:29:06+05:30

Comments (8)

checkIN
checkIN 4 days ago

do you think part of you still wants her to suddenly realize what she lost?

nike
nike 4 days ago

when sometimes I miss think her yes but when think red flag I realise that reason we will never work out cuz she never wan fix

Heartache
Heartache 4 days ago

126 days no contact… that’s real strength. i’ve been with a dismissive avoidant too. the ghosting, the dry texts, the bare minimum. i used to beg and blame myself too. then one day i realized i was chasing someone who didn’t even seem afraid to lose me. that part HURT. i’m proud of you for seeing the red flags now

nike
nike 4 days ago

wow u 134 day u doing good job. send my love hug to u stay strong Buddy. fuck them discard without closure get ghost short hot cold blame worse than normal break up I feel insane I became avoidant anxious anxiety trauma I keep rewind confuse how fix turn out it them fault play victim evil hope u heal move on u deserve love who care all u need bare minimum take care good luck

FrostTap906
FrostTap906 4 days ago

you deserve better

nike
nike 4 days ago

thk u u right u too buddy

Sojourner
Sojourner 5 days ago

Sometimes people come into your life simply to serve as the lesson that you can do better by yourself. Take care of yourself buddy. You deserve to be happy and respected.

nike
nike 5 days ago

thank u lot 🙏💜💜💜💜💜 for u kind word yes I will u right she emotional unavailable. you too buddy take care yourself stay strong we in this together hope us can find love heal move on