I think a lot of the pain is about how it felt easy to like and love myself when she was around. Without her decorating my soul, I feel like a miserable pile of deep flaws, bad habits and frustrated desires.
Last updated on:2026-02-27T17:54:03+05:30
Do I Miss My Ex, or Just Feeling Loved?
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do you think she actually created that lovable version of you… or did she just reflect it back?
when i realized i was outsourcing my self-worth to someone else, it was brutal.
i used to swear i missed him… but if i’m honest, i missed who i got to be when he chose me. i felt lighter. more lovable. like my flaws didn’t scream so loud. when he left, it wasn’t just him. it was that version of me too so yeah, i’ve been there.
i miss the feeling of having someone you can share your daily life. someone listening about your worries or how you see life in general
Yes that too. Her just calling me in the train back from work. and actually caring about how my day went. I miss that empathy and togetherness
Yes, that's true, especially if the relationship lasted a long time. But nothing is impossible; with time, you'll find yourself again little by little.