he texted me after 70 days.. asked me if I have moved on or been physical with anyone..I said I have been busy with business and studies so didn't thought after move on. and no I haven't been physical with anyone..then he said can we meet ..i said ok ..then he said can we meet in a room privately and I said sorry not possible...he hasn't texted since it been 4 days...I can think he just want sex but we were together 10 years and it's the same guy who had sex with me after 8 years of relationship after he cleared his post-graduation exam and had stable future
so I just don't know
I know if I meet him privately I will lose control and come back to square one..and all my progress of 70 days will go to dump
I understand people change and honestly I don't recognise him for the past year
I am hoping the guy who took care of me for so many years is still there
I am not texting him.. because he cheated.. bring someone else..so he has to decide
Last updated on:2026-03-02T23:59:55+05:30
Comments (8)
girl please block him, don't pay attention to him, he wants to get physical access to you, you deserve a man who genuinely loves you and won't abandon you just to come to get access whenever it feels convenient for him
He ain't even worth your response! Block and move forward
girl, well done saying no to him.
GIRL, CLEARLY, HE JUST WANTS SEX. He did not respond to you after 4 days. We know, and you know that your ex is only contacting you again because of sex. BLOCK HIM! HE IS A CHEATER! And 70 days of no contact is a big work, so please dont throw that all away!!!
he cheated and just wan sex fuck him block him forever sis cheater never change he hoe good jobs don't text him forever block too u doing good job take care yourself rest heal move on talk friend fam gym therapy journal busy school work hobby hope you feel better soon
do you think the silence after you said no is your answer? like… if he truly wanted you back, would he disappear just because you set one boundary
my ex popped back up after months too, asking if i’d been with anyone. same energy. like they don’t want YOU, they just want access. and when i set a boundary about not meeting privately? silence. it crushed me because i kept hoping the old version of him was still in there. but the guy who cheats and the guy who “took care of you” can’t exist at the same time. that realization HURT
you did well. it wasn't easy but you stand your ground. you have the guts. you will be fine.