(if you don't know the context, you can go to my previous posts)
today it finally hit me that the story between my ex and i has truly come to an end. he has shifted his attention to someone else.
i was still holding onto the last bit of hope, for what? nothing.
recently, his statuses have been things like "he was right under my nose" and "he’s an angel." deja vu, huh?
i still remember the first time he confessed his feelings to me. he said i was the first person he ever laid his eyes on first, because in the past he was usually the one being confessed to. he told me that before, feelings for others only developed during the relationship, and that he later realized it was just appreciation rather than real love.
now that i think about it, complete bullshit. he dropped me and moved on within days, like changing shirts.
and the person he's now associated with is just as immature. why would you start getting close to a person who just broke up? almost like he was waiting in line for his turn. i'll NEVER understand how either of them thinks.
my honest wish for them? that it won't last long and that it won’t end well!
Last updated on:2026-03-02T23:43:38+05:30
Comments (13)
do you think he actually healed, or is he just filling space so he doesn’t have to sit with himself
i think it's very unlikely that he actually healed. it's only been a couple of weeks since we broke up, way too short for the healing process. it's more likely he's trying to cope with the breakup by using someone else's accompany. he basically only started talking to that person in a romantic sense after we broke up. they were friends for months before that.
i’m not judging you for wishing it crashes and burns. i’ve wished that too but for me, constantly watching what they were doing kept me stuck in it
i’ve been the girl refreshing statuses and seeing the “angel” posts about someone new it messes with your head so bad. mine also moved on in DAYS. like i was a shirt he got bored of. that part really HURT. the hope dying is its own breakup
you deserve much better, just don't low your standards and let karma do the work👌🌌🌹
they deserved each other. you dodged a bullet
no, they don't. him and i were a good match, but i fucked up. after a conversation with mom and more reflection, i think him moving on like that is understandable to some extent. because i hurt him. but what's done is done, i can't undo the damage. but hopefully, in the future, he does give me a chance to fix things. if not, that's fine as well.
took my girl 3 weeks to jump into her neigbours arms after a 5 year on off relationship with me. definitely a rebound element here too. which means shell have to process difficult emotions in the future...but that doesnt mean its doomed. they could be a better match than we were..
ah, i see.. i'm sorry to hear that. everything will be fine eventually though. please take care of yourself!
Let karma take its course; everyone will get what they deserve. 🙏
I agree!!
totally feel ya. I know my ex is better of with her new guy, but I absolutely wish for their relationship to crash and burn hard. Would make me feel better about myself. normal human feelings. healthy to give it a voice and not pretend to be holy. that said, its good to also accept reality. their choices are no longer our story.
i'm sorry to hear that and i totally get your situation. but my situation is different. my ex got with that person immediately after things ended for him and i. my ex could be using that person as a rebound, or even not, by how fast he moved on and went to another person shouts instability. if my ex took things slower then got into a healthy relationship, i'd wish him happiness. but what he's doing right now? hell no.