Stuck in a loop: same fights, same heartbreak

me and my ex started talking again and we’re exactly in the same position we were in last year. Same fights, same gaslighting, same anger, same resentment. Although he says he wants to be friends no effort is shown and when I bring it up suddenly I’m not being patient. I’m really exhausted and we have been doing this for over a year. Any tips on how to have self control? Sometimes I feel this awful anxiety when he doesn’t answer and I just want to know how I can be strong. I’m so exhausted that my body is showin physical signs.

Last updated on:2026-03-04T13:33:30+05:30

Comments (6)

PingJoy877
PingJoy877 18 hrs ago

Take him a revenge. Be prettier than ever . Go gym ..visit new places. Make new friends. Don't give him thousand chances to the same person instead try a different one. What if U actually find someone better. Don't waste your energy and time on him . Don't pity him . Don't feel guilty

SoulSync495
SoulSync495 18 hrs ago

you’re right. He has drained my body of energy and patience. all I can do now is gracefully let go

FunVibes928
FunVibes928 21 hrs ago

You deserve way better Queen. Stop settling for less than you deserve

SoulSync495
SoulSync495 21 hrs ago

you’re right. any tips?

HexiZap636
HexiZap636 24 hrs ago

I think u should just leave him, he wants access without responsibilities, he is giving you breadcrumbs and u deserve way more than that.

SoulSync495
SoulSync495 23 hrs ago

you’re right. it’s been over a year and nothing has changed. I’m gonna block him