Day 230
Last week was so good. I finally felt like I was over the breakup. This week has been bad. I want off this emotional roller coaster! It's already been 9 months! What triggered me was seeing his new gi
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Day 205 of No Contact
I've been doing so well lately. Tonight I opened Facebook and saw his girlfriend, the one he cheated on me with. She's now friends with some of his family on Facebook. It just sent me spiraling. I hat
Day 195
I'm on day 195 of no contact after the end of a 7 year relationship. He broke up with me May 5th. I believe he was cheating on me. No hard proof, just several pieces of circumstantial evidence and m
129 Days!
Today is 129 days of no contact! I'm proud of myself, even though I am still hurting inside. It's been 6 months and I still haven't gotten over it. I'm mad at myself for allowing him to live rent free
No Contact
Today is day 101 of no contact. So why is my ex still living rent free in my head?! I think it's bc I'm angry and I still have things I want to say to him. But I keep reminding myself that silence is
No Contact
Today is 90 days of no contact. I'm proud of myself. It hasn't always been easy. It's been a real roller coaster of emotions since the breakup in May. I finally had the courage and strength to block h
Triggered
Tonight was particularly bad. Something triggered me and made me drive by his house after 3 months of no contact. I halfway expected to see another woman's car in his driveway and that's exactly what
Lately, my anger toward my ex seems to be dissapating
Lately, my anger toward my ex seems to be dissapating. Now it's turned to sadness and disappointment. But it varies from day to day, so who knows. I want off this roller coaster ride. I want my happin
Today was a good day
Today was a good day. For the first time in over a month, I did not feel anger and rage toward my ex. Hopefully, I'm getting to a good place. I don't want to be angry all the time.
3 months post breakup
3 months post breakup, 42 days no contact, and he is still living rent free in my head 24/7. I don't know how to stop thinking about him. It's all anger though. All I think about is how angry I am at
Today was a good day
Today was a good day. I forced myself to get up early and go to yoga class. Then I spent 30 minutes on the rowing machine. After that I hung out with my sister all day. I posted some pictures on fb of
The weekends are the hardest and I dread them
The weekends are the hardest and I dread them. I miss having my person to hang out with and do things with. I need to figure out a way to turn my weekends around. I have FOMO. I think that he's out ha
I'm on day 38 of no contact
I'm on day 38 of no contact. He has texted me twice in the past two weeks. I have completely ignored his texts. I can't figure out if his reasons were legit or he was just wanting to reach out to me.
36 days no contact. He texted me two weeks ago to let me know his dog died
36 days no contact. He texted me two weeks ago to let me know his dog died. I didn't respond. Today he texted to ask if he could drop off my sunglasses and get his mailbox key from me. When I didn't r
The weekends are the hardest
The weekends are the hardest. I sit at home wondering what he's doing. I hate having these thoughts. I just need to stay busy, so I won't have time to think about it.
I just saw pictures of my ex on his daughter's fb page and it really triggered me
I just saw pictures of my ex on his daughter's fb page and it really triggered me. Now I'm just dying inside and so depressed.
Really struggling today
Really struggling today. Keep thinking about my ex and I have no motivation to do anything. I've blown off everything on my schedule so far today.
I find that staying angry at my ex helps me to maintain no contact
I find that staying angry at my ex helps me to maintain no contact. But it's not good for me and I don't want to be angry all the time. but I don't know how to move past this anger. I guess i just wan
One thing I've learned from this breakup is that you can't depend on a partner for your happiness
One thing I've learned from this breakup is that you can't depend on a partner for your happiness. Your happiness is your responsibility and it comes from within.
When my ex broke up with me 2 months ago
When my ex broke up with me 2 months ago, he told me that I spend too much time on social media and that I should get off all social media. Every time I go on Facebook, I see that he's been active rec
It's been 21 days of no contact with my ex
It's been 21 days of no contact with my ex. He texted me this morning to tell me that his dog died last night. I did not respond. I did not even open the text for fear it would send him a read receipt
My ex texted me today
My ex texted me today, but I did not respond because I did not want to break the no contact. It's been 17 days since he texted me for my birthday and we texted back and forth. I felt like I was being
Well, it's a 3 day holiday weekend and it hurts that I no longer have my partner to spend it with
Well, it's a 3 day holiday weekend and it hurts that I no longer have my partner to spend it with. I feel sad and lonely. I just keep reminding myself of 3 things: 1. Living well is the best revenge;
I am so glad that I found this app
I am so glad that I found this app. Everyone on here has been so supportive and so positive. You'll never know how much your kind words truly mean to me. Thank you from the bottom of my broken heart.
Today was my birthday
Today was my birthday. I tried to be happy, but I just kept thinking about him all day and how we spent our birthdays together for the past 7 years. His birthday was Saturday. I hope my birthday next
I volunteered with my coworkers
I volunteered with my coworkers. Helping others makes you forget about your problems. It felt good. I'm going to do it again next month.
I told him I needed a clean break and I haven't heard from him since
I told him I needed a clean break and I haven't heard from him since. He wants to stay friends, but f*ck him for hurting me like this. I'm very angry at him still and right now he is dead to me. Satur
My bf broke up with me May 5th and I've been miserable ever since
My bf broke up with me May 5th and I've been miserable ever since. we were together for 7 years and friends for 8 years before that. we lived together for the last 2 years. I had to leave in a hurry a