Getting my stuff back
so I contacted him yesterday to get my stuff back, and return his as a last final step of the break up, I was super neutral, and he’s just stalling. he replied instantly but he tried to divert the c
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Still need to collect my things
I’m doing okay today. still wondering why behind alot of things but I’m okay with not knowing at the same time. the truth isn’t gonna set me free. I’ve been making myself feel sick at the thou
He broke no contact
since he broke no contact, even tho I stood my ground and held my boundaries, it just triggered me all over again. I’m not missing him, but all the questions I had before that I thought I had put to
He broke no contact
He messaged me on the weekend to try start an argument, I didn’t engage, he kept pushing, I didn’t engage, I eventually replied to descalate the situation, and gave a very emotionless reply which
14 days since the break up and full no contact; some things have been triggering but not in the
14 days since the break up and full no contact; some things have been triggering but not in the way to return, in the way to have a fight lmao but it’s not worth my energy. At times I feel my energy
As the days go by I’m finding myself less less and thinking about him
As the days go by I’m finding myself less less and thinking about him, less and less wanting to check up on him. I’m finally detaching and I’m so grateful I am. Seeing his actions of distraction
Do avoidants ever feel regret?
Do avoidants ever feel regret? or realise the impact of their actions when their distractions run out?
Well day 10 of no contact after the break up
Well day 10 of no contact after the break up, and I’ve been told some seriously triggering information, he’s been sleeping with an ex friend of his who is a sex worker now and she posted an explic
10 days of no contact with my ex
10 days of no contact with my ex, it’s very up and down but it’s getting easier to detach and let go. Things I’ve learned so far: I realise I was always holding onto the version of him I fell in