Embracing a little solitude tonight while my daughter is with my mom. It’s definitely tough being alone, but I’m choosing to make the most of it. Cooking a 5-star dinner and dessert for one, follo
It’s officially been 2 months of no contact. Two months and he hasn’t even checked on his own daughter. That told me everything. I’m choosing no contact for life. Not out of anger, out of self-r
Forgot to share how therapy went last week, but wow…major breakthrough. While unpacking my abandonment issues, I realized they run way deeper than I thought. I finally understand where they come fro
A full month and still nothing. No email. No checking in on his daughter. No asking to see her. This isn’t new, it’s his pattern. He disappears when we’re not together and only shows interest wh
Today I felt angry. Like…really angry. My mom kept mentioning my ex, saying things like “oh he’ll be in shock when he sees her eating,” talking about my daughter. And it honestly set me back.
Hmmm surprisingly, I received some money from my ex today. I checked my bank account and saw a large deposit. He finally sent money to support his daughter…only took 6 months. I don’t plan on reac
Today he sent flowers and a whole cake. It’s not even my birthday, it’s tomorrow. He knows that. He also knows I’m actively working on losing the baby weight. No message. No accountability. No r
Two weeks no contact with my avoidant ex-husband. We share a 6 month old daughter, and he has abandoned her again for the second time since her birth. He is financially stable yet chooses not to contr