Am i lying to myself about missing her?

19 days. I went through all 7 stages of grief. But I cannot believe it, am I lying to myself right now? Not even a month, how could this happen? I have accepted all of it, and I have no regrets.

But what if I still love her deep down yet I just faced the reality of US?

Last updated on:2026-04-02T08:21:47+05:30

Comments (6)

snowfall
snowfall 2 wks ago

do you feel calm right now or does it feel like something is being pushed down under the surface?

ChillTree915
ChillTree915 3 days ago

I simply did not want to hit rock bottom. Love is not an excuse to abandon my own needs. So I walked away

Lazyqueen
Lazyqueen 2 wks ago

i stopped trying to label it. some days i felt nothing, some days it hit again, both were real. letting it come and go without overthinking it helped me more than trying to “figure it out.

haaddii
haaddii 2 wks ago

i hit that point too where the pain just… went quiet and i started questioning if i even cared or if i just shut it off. it felt like i skipped something and it scared me.

BetterMe0308
BetterMe0308 2 wks ago

just keep thinking of positive ways and thought for you to overcome the no contact for your own sake

BlazeFox967
BlazeFox967 2 wks ago

you may always love that person, it just may turn into a love you remember with good memories instead of the bad. the grief will still come and go. Just keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know youre not alone friend ❤️