today I hv ended everything w him it was hard but amicable. We were having a long distance relationship but haven't gotten a chance to even meet in person n although it can appear easy for some since we haven't met each other it's sucking the life Outta me. it's intense n i m feel like dying cause it ended be so many what if's n maybe's. I'm broken beyond anything. don't know what to do?
Last updated on:2026-03-31T08:05:12+05:30
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when you say it feels like you’re dying, are you alone with all this right now or do you have someone you can sit with, even just quietly
I hv my siblings but all of em are busy in their lives while I m sitting here w no job or any significant work to do n about friends I hv handful of ppl whom I trust but even they are going through a lot in their lives so yeah I m kinda alone, also, when I said "I feel like dying" I didn't mean i m dying but it's just me explaining the level of excruciating emotional pain i'm into currently.
i ended a long distance thing before we ever met too and people acted like it shouldn’t hurt that bad, but it did, it felt so REAL to me… all those what ifs just kept looping in my head
you stole my words. Ppl don't know how much a what if can hurt than an actual positive/negative outcome.
Find out who you are now without him. Date yourself. Focus forward. Lingering in the past will do you no favors. One day at a time. One foot foward. Continue the No Contact. It will take months, but you will recover from this. We all eventually do, but it's a slow process. Have patience with your mind.
im so proud of you for leaving something that wasn’t making you truly deeply happy
hey thanks🌸
what made you decide to end it? I have the same situation. long distance and we never met. it’s extremely painful and difficult, I feel you 🥺I am going through the same thing, and I feel that giving yourself a true break from communication can help you regain clarity and not go back just because of love or attachment. unfortunately sometimes love is not enouhh
he lives in whole diff country n tho we thought we could be tog we run out the ideas. there are so many barriers n we know we can't make it so there were 2 options, either we will end things n remain friends or i decide to walk away cause I can't be a him platonically..so I opted the second one. We had so many push n pull but we thought we would end it after meeting n guess what it ended even before meeting due to some issue..which directly led me believing that universe doesn't want us tog so I gave up the hope of me ever being w him in person.
We talked for 2-3 hours (video call, call, chat altogether)n then said our last goodbyes.
I can't describe it in words cause he had been w me when I needed him the most n kinda my emotional anchor n now i hv to navigate my life all by myself. right now I m all alone no friends, no job, lost my parents n siblings who acts bitter sometimes.
I m lost tbh.