it's really so weird how you just fight for someone so badly and just cry and cry and cry how much i made myself pathetic how much i kept begging to be loved to be important enough that he feels as hurt as me everytime we fight yet it's just not meant to be no matter how much of an insane I'm no matter how much i fight I'm always alone and he'll never really love me even if i kept begging for it it just will never come
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When a breakup happens, I tell myself that was God letting me know that we weren't right for each other.
I get it
i can feel you it reallyhurts
Right. So look at him as dust on your feather duster. In your mind's eye, take the duster outside and shake him off, let him go to the winds. Hurt will not be your life. Love will. Drop hurt. Seek love. This guy is yesterday's news.
how long were you trying to make him understand your love before you realized it wasn’t enough?
two years and i still deep down have that idea that it still has hope even though I know it doesn't
Im a guy and It been weeks. My gurl blocked my number because I sent her 1000th of msg apologizing.
And sent 1000th of voice mails.
It's hard to work, it's hard to sleep, its hard to do my normal hobbies.
The days when I am happy and over her, I want to spend it with her. And I call, and seeing me blocked reopen my pain again. can't even move on because Im hoping she will call me back.
The longet I went without calling her was 3 days.
Im trying to do a week.
How can I move on when everything I did, It was with her, so everything I do just reminds me how much I miss her.
That's exactly what I'm going through. It's been like this since December, everything I read says to work on yourself bla bla bla. But nothing ever tells you how to actually devise a plan to get her to come back, especially when she's blocked you. I know my ex is seeing someone else and that rips me to the core also. Even if I could get someone else, and I can, I'm actually on a dating app and am talking to around 8 different women. None of them are what I want. Why should I have to settle for someone that isn't going to replace what I lost
@PloopMo794 I been in love before. It took 3 years to get over her. I thought I'd never fall in love again. But I did. This one is better than the last. So I know time heals but I don't want to go through another 3 years
i begged too, cried too, stayed up thinking maybe love could fix everything, and it still didn’t. it HURT.
That's a deep cut for real because that's exactly where I'm at and I've been with him for 3 years living with him and I had to uproot my whole entire life and kept trying to make it work and crying and trying to make him see that it doesn't have to be a breakup that there's another way that we can make it work that this doesn't have to be a goodbye but all I was left with who was more hurt because he was completely checked out and mind you he knows how much I love him but much I want him how much I care and all of it doesn't matter in the end which just makes it hurt even more so I definitely understand the wanting to making it work but the helplessness you have because you have no control over the outcome because it's not up to you and it's not in your control 😢💔