Hey, I've just joined this app. I had to part ways with my GF. She's 11 weeks pregnant and i've had this gut feeling that something strange was going on which was a battle on its own. I asked, and she was more insulted than anything.
She left one of her devices open which had her Telegram on her browser. I looked and found out that she'd planned a trip away to Italy with her 'client/friend' who she'd been spending quite some time with trying to find him a new apartment.
I questioned her, and got very little in return, no explanation, no apology, nothing. Felt like it was out of bowhere. Just silence and she left, which is even worse. I was physically throwing up all day.. can't eat.. I don't know what to do, but I know its going to be quite the painful journey, hence why I looked for an app like this here.
I'm disgusted, sickened and regardless, it hurts more as I know that there is no way that I could ever take her back after this. I guess time will help.. but the thought of ever forgiving and forming any kind of relationship with such an individual isn't even an option.
Praying for all of our healing guys 🙏❤️
Happy to be a part of your community ✨️
Last updated on:2026-04-03T17:54:07+05:30
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i’m really sorry you’re going through this, especially with the pregnancy involved… are you planning to stay involved in that situation at all or trying to step away completely right now?
hey, we're currently in no contact. the whole situation has really fried my head. I don't know whats real and what isn't, so i've said that I would want to be apart of its life and involved, but in order for me to do so, i'd want a paternity test just to put my mind at ease, as I have no intentions of having of leaving myself to being open further surprised, as this wouldn't just be heartbreaking, it would destroy my sould.
As soon as I made it clear that I knew what was going on, she's not talked, or messaged. Which for me is an indication that she know's that when she see's me, she'll have to explain or even discuss whats happened, probablt thinking that it will be easier to just not do anything at all.
Either way, i'm solely focusing on myself for now. Coming to terms with whats happened and trying to feel my way through this situation, embracing it to learn, as otherwise all of this was litterally for nothing. ✨️
that silence and lack of explanation says a lot
Exactly this! I'm left with very little to do but accept it for what it is 🙏
man this hurt to read… i’ve been there with that gut feeling that something is off and then finding out the truth in the worst way. i remember feeling physically sick too, like my body just couldn’t handle it. that kind of betrayal sticks deep.
aww man tell me about it. Heartbroken is an understatement. all I can do is move in a forward direction
sometimes people only think about themselves and their own emotions, without realizing how much they can hurt you. I know it’s hard to accept, but someone who truly loves you wouldn’t treat you like that. the first weeks are always the hardest, but try to do things that help you take your mind off her, even for a little while. time really does heal, and one day someone will give you the love you truly deserve.
I know it's hard to process this happened, but please do know you aren't alone!
I really appreciate this! thank you so much, it means a lot 🙏
The end of your post is the first part, and as hard as it is to even process whats happening, you know ow you deserve better then what shes decided to do. Take it one day at a time, you will have ups and lows, up know that those lows will pass, please know they will, I let myself spiral and constantly kept breaking no contact.
Welcome!
Big thank you for this 🙏🙏🙏 I hope you're keeping well