Why your ego is holding you back after a breakup

A lot of what we feel when rejected in whatever form is our Ego demanding satisfaction. We decide we cannot go on unless we get what we need emotionally.
So we pout.
We cry.
We mentally exhaust ourselves in the fight to get what we think we need.
What we demand we want.

Listen Up: This has ZERO to do with love, or missing them.

This is you needing your bruised and battered Ego to be mended.
Nothing more.

As soon as you realize that and CHOOSE to stop your Ego from taking the lead, Grace arrives. Your mind settles and allows acceptance into your life enough for you to work on you, to better yourself, your ex not needed.

Yes, this reality will be tough for some to accept.
But all that sadness, sorrow, self pity, crying... it's your Ego demanding its fix.

For today, remove your Ego from the driver's seat.
Recognize your perception of things could be, probably is, wrong.
And go out into the world grateful to be alive, eager to meet your better future.

And in taking that step, Grace in the form of inner contentment quietly glides forth.
And a smile, however thin, however weak, finally forms on your lips.

This rejection.
It's not about them.
It's about you.
Choose to fix you. 💜