its been over 2 months since he broke up our 2,5 year relationship. we were both 17 when we got together and on my 20th birthday he told me he had doubts about his feelings for me. the next day he broke up with me.
after our closure conversation a week later he told me he always had the feeling that i loved him more than he loved me. this BROKE me.
i just feel so lost and hopeless all the time. i miss him so much and i dont feel like its getting any better. we had such a great connection.
i cant help but feeling like its my fault. that is something that keeps living in my head a lot and i cant let it go.
does anyone have any advice for me on how to try to let go the feeling of wanting to go back in time and change everything? does it really get better? i dont know what to do
Last updated on:2026-04-13T14:10:50+05:30
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is it more that his doubts made you start questioning your whole worth?
yeah i think so. its hard not to. to stop feeling like i wasn't worth fighting for
i felt that line about loving them more… my ex said something similar and it shattered me too. i kept replaying everything wondering what i could’ve done differently, like if i just loved “less” maybe he would’ve stayed