Should i wish my ex happy birthday after our breakup?

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Should I wish my ex happy birthday? We broke up yesterday. I spent my bday with him this year in Jan. His bday will be in July.

Last updated on:2026-04-13T16:15:31+05:30

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heartfelt
heartfelt 2 mths ago

are you wanting to wish him because you genuinely mean it, or because a part of you hopes it’ll start something again?

FunkFlip821
FunkFlip821 2 mths ago

because I care for him not to reconnect. but I know I will fall back into the cycle if I do contact him.

WavyDay965
WavyDay965 2 mths ago

@FunkFlip821 than it is probably better you don't.

darkside
darkside 2 mths ago

i wouldn’t do it this soon. i texted mine once after a breakup like this and it pulled me right back into the mess for weeks, i regretted it more than skipping it.

udemy
udemy 2 mths ago

my ex’s birthday was like a week after we broke up and i stared at my phone ALL day. i didn’t text, and it hurt, but it also stopped me from reopening everything again

goldenarleen
goldenarleen 2 mths ago

no, honestly I know you still care. we are human and it is normal. but it tells him your weak and you need to move on and keep no contact

HappyGo239
HappyGo239 2 mths ago

NO NO

Bluebutterfly
Bluebutterfly 2 mths ago

once you decided to let it go..don't have a soft corner...so i suggest you not to

HushMoo449
HushMoo449 2 mths ago

no