She was the kindest, most caring girl. We were so committed to each other, willing to do anything to make each other happy. I loved her deeply, and she loved me too. But it all happened during a time of intense academic pressure. We started arguing a lot during those high-stress exam periods. My own anger issues would make things worse—I’d get especially heated. Over time, she began to lose her feelings for me, but she kept it to herself until they were completely gone, worn down by the arguments and tension.
Now, we’ve broken up. I would give anything to go back and stop myself from getting so wrapped up in the pressure of exams that I forgot to treat her as she deserved. Now we’re heading to different colleges, and she’s moved on. She’ll probably find someone else soon—she seems happy now, which I try to see as a silver lining. But it hurts; I wanted to experience everything with her, to share my life, grow old, maybe even marry her someday. I don’t know if I’ll find that again. Right now, everything feels so empty. How do I move forward?
Last updated on:2024-11-05T13:56:52+05:30
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University studies and serious, monogamous relationships often bring challenges when combined. It can simply be too overwhelming. I know this advice may come a bit late, but remember, healing takes time. If you’re still studying, consider waiting before jumping into a new relationship right now.
It actually started back in high school, then came the college entrance exams. I can’t even imagine being with anyone else because I'm still not over her. The pain is still fresh, and I’m just not ready—or even sure how—to move on.
@EnzoMOBB Alright, moving forward means getting out of bed each day and focusing on your responsibilities. Healing takes time, but you will get through it.
@Walker I truly appreciate your advice. Talking to someone about it really helps a bit.
@EnzoMOBB 🥰🥰